Friday, December 30, 2011

Best Year....Ever

This year has definitely been an eventful one.

This year my best friend asked me to marry him, we made it official this summer.



We moved to a new city this fall. Hubby started his career as a history teacher, and I started my graduate school to be a School Psychologist.

We're ending our year by spending time with our family that's here from out of state.

Have a great New Year's!

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

A Story About Me

I'd like to tell you a very personal story about me. This is not for a pity party; its so others can hear it who may need to know they aren't alone or for some to maybe better understand those they love.

          Three years ago, I had a really hard time sitting through my classes in college. I would often feel dizzy, sick to my stomach, and clammy. It was a fight to just stay in my chair for fear of becoming sick, let alone paying any attention to what was going on in the classroom. When I would drive down a certain bumpy road, I would experience pain and nausea, too; so I would drive out of my way to avoid that road. I would have awful ringing and pain in my ears, and most of the time I had to really concentrate when people were talking to me so I could hear what they were saying. I knew there was really something wrong when I would have really bad vertigo spells without any warning. It was Christmas time and I was shopping by myself when I had my first vertigo spell. It came very quickly and felt like I was being pushed over and spun; I had to hold onto the shelving in the store so I wouldn't fall over.

I went to my family doctor, and he told me I had an ear infection. He sent me home with antibiotics and told me to come back in 2 or 3 weeks if I wasn't feeling better. The second time I went back, he said there was still fluid on my ear and gave me a stronger antibiotic and numbing drops for my ears. The third time he gave me two antibiotics that you would usually get if you went to the hospital for something more serious than my diagnosed ear infection. I called my doctor after the medicine still didn't work, and he sent me to an ENT.

The ENT checked out my ears and asked me about my symptoms. He took an x-ray of my head and had my hearing tested. We sat down and talked and he told me I had Meniere's disease. He told me that he actually suffered from the same disease and so did his mom. His mother's illness went undiagnosed, and she became deaf. When your doctor sits you down and tells you that you have to change or you will go deaf, it kind of hits you like a ton of bricks.  

This is the way my doctor explained it to me: a person who has Meniere's doesn't regulate sodium properly. Their body retains too much, and it causes fluid to build up in their inner ear. This helps cause the ringing, hearing loss, and vertigo. He told me I had to keep my sodium (salt) intake at 1500-2000 mg/day.  Most people don't look at sodium on food labels (normally just fat, calories, carbs, and protein); I never did. Other things like caffeine (ironically, I started to drink coffee a couple of months before all of the big symptoms like the vertigo and ear pain started), alcohol, and stress make it worse.

As  you can expect, I went into a sort of denial stage; then I got depressed; then I went overboard on the whole sodium thing. I ate like a rabbit for about 2 weeks and then rebelled. I also found out that "sweets" don't have a whole lot of salt in them, but that didn't do me any good, either. I finally set myself straight and went to the grocery store one day to just read labels on the foods I normally eat. I quickly realized that I was going to be doing a lot of cooking in the future or go deaf. My dad was really supportive of me (I was living with him at the time). Our new diet also helped his high blood pressure! 

After changing my diet and cutting out my coffee, my hearing slowly improved (not to a perfect level, though) and my vertigo virtually went away. The thing that I was most happy about was that the pain in my ears went away. I must admit that I have met other people who have this disease at a far worse level than I do. My ENT told me that we caught it early, but that isn't the case for some people. I met a woman who had to take all kinds of pills and LITERALLY had to always eat like a rabbit.

Another confession: I don't always do my best with the whole salt thing. Sometimes I'm more lax with my diet, and I can definitely tell. I really like popcorn and eating out with my friends or my husband. And my body lets me know I did wrong. Every now and then I'll have a vertigo episode, or I'll have that pain in my ears.Then I hop back on the wagon. Lately, I've made a commitment to doing better all of the time. Yes, I can go out to eat, but not frequently. Yes, I can eat at other people's homes who do not have the same diet as me. As long as it doesn't happen all the time, I'm okay.

With my renewed commitment, I'm going to share with you all how I alter recipes or make things on my own (with my favorite low-so cook book). Like I said earlier, most people don't even look at labels whether they have a health complication or not. Eating less salt can help you avoid high blood pressure (healthier heart!) and can help you and your family avoid obesity.

I'm sorry if you think this post was too long or was too personal. I needed to get this off of my chest because I believe that maybe, just maybe, I can help someone else who felt just as helpless as I did.

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Recipe Thursday: Crock Pot Stroganoff

I've been trying out a lot of new recipes lately. So, I think I'm going to try and share one once a week with you all. 
Here's one that we tried last week that I've fallen in love with.

Crock Pot Beef Stroganoff with Cream Cheese
my notes or changes are in blue

1& 1/4 pound cubed beef stew meat
2 can condensed cream of mushroom soup I chose the reduced (lower) sodium kind, sometimes you have to really look for it in the grocery store
1 chopped onion We aren't super big on onions, so I used 1/2 onion
2 Tbsp Worcestershire Sauce
1/4 c. water (or a little more if you want saucy). Next time I think I will use a 1/2 cup
dash of garlic salt I used garlic powder, not garlic salt (again, avoiding the salt but still adds good taste)
8 oz cream cheese (cut up)
Egg noodles or Amish noodles

In slow cooker, combine uncooked meat and all ingredients EXCEPT cream cheese and noodles.

Cook on low setting for 8 hrs or high for about 5 hrs. Approx. 15-20 min before serving, add the cream cheese; stir occasionally until melted. Approx. 10 minutes before serving, add uncooked noodles, push down in sauce to get lightly coated; replace lid, but stir occasionally until noodles are soft & ready to eat.


The hubby and I really enjoyed this! On a scale of 0 to 5 (0 being I never want to eat this again and 5 being I really like this and want it often), hubby rated it a 4 and I'd rate it a 4.5.

I don't have a picture of our finished product; in the future, I hope to have a picture for you.

Let me know if you try this and what you think.

If you have any recipes that you'd like to share, I'm always looking for a good one! 

Saturday, October 1, 2011

A Good Wife Should....

Lately, I've been pondering about my role as a wife (that's still weird...good weird...to say). I think that everyone has different expectations of what wives should and shouldn't do. 

I'm pretty sure my grandma Lucy would say something like 'feed your husband and have lots of great grand kids for me.' Some people would consider pulling your own weight with the household income to be a given. Others may say to take care of the house and children. Sew, cook, bake, clean, wear heels on the carpet, you know.

The lines of expectations are kind of blurry for me. I'm still in school and will be for another two years. I have a graduate assistanship which takes up 20 hours a week, work my retail job on the weekends, and am at school all the time. Sometimes I don't feel like I'm fulfilling my wifely obligations (cooking, cleaning, etc.) when I come home from a 9 hour day at school and just want to sleep when I come through the door. 

The hubby and I, I think, have been doing a pretty good job of balancing all of the house chores, but with him working full time now, it's getting harder.

How do you handle all of your obligations? What are your expectations of a wife's role?

Sunday, September 11, 2011

It creeps up on you

I was giving a test for a class to a young child last year, and I asked her what the four seasons were. She said, "summer, spring, fall, and...um....Christmas?"

I've been seeing it everywhere, and it's not even Halloween yet. Working in retail, after the back-to-school rush, your mind automatically starts preparing for the holiday season, which, literally begins the week or two after Halloween. 

Earlier this week, I went to a craft store that's notorious for having their Christmas products out for at least half of the year (you know the one I'm talking about, the one that I could spend all day in just looking). Aisles and aisles of red and green. Even stacked on top of the non-Christmas themed aisles.  I was thinking, " Really?"

Then, earlier this morning, there was a post on a blog that I read about already thinking about saving for Christmas. Being a newlywed, this hit home with me. Money is tight right now for just about everyone, especially us newlyweds or soon-to-be-weds. I don't think people would expect a lot from us, but I love seeing the joy on people's faces when they've opened a gift that I put a lot of thought into.

So, the article I read suggested opening up a new savings account just for Christmas. I really don't think that's necessary unless you have a slew of kids and save the whole entire year for Christmas. Other people I know (namely my mom), buy little things they see all year round when they're on sale. The problem people have is not being able to find these things when it comes time for Christmas (I tend to get a few things around Valentine's day from my mom or grandma that were meant to be given at Christmas. lol).


I think the hubby and I will be sticking to Dave Ramsey's envelope system. I've read most of Dave's book The Total Money Makeover and I really like some of the things that he has to say about money....anyways. 


How do you handle saving for Christmas (and other money things) in your family?

Saturday, September 3, 2011

Starting School...Again

It's that time again...

I LOVE back to school time.

  I LOVE buying school supplies. Even as a kid, I loved picking out what folders and binders I would have for the year. My favorite was always Lisa Frank, of course.
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Having all of these new supplies makes me feel organized and at peace with the world...at least until mid-semester when things get crazy and I stop using my planner.

I started graduate school at LSUS in their Specialist in School Psychology program about 2 weeks ago. Things are kinda hectic carrying 9 hours, a full time (20 hours/week) graduate assistantship, and working at my part-time job. Justin has been really amazing with helping keep the house clean and food on the table...although I sometimes wonder how often he secretly eats Ramen when I'm not around. Justin is still busy searching for a job. He had an interview earlier in the week that wasn't fruitful.  

This morning, Justin and I drove down to Jonesville for his family reunion. It was the 200th anniversary of the McClure's moving to this region. It was really nice meeting more of Justin's family, and I always enjoy spending time with his parents. I'm even sitting here (sort-of) watching the LSU game at their house. I must admit that I'm a Razorback girl thru-and-thru! We're going to swing through and visit my dad tomorrow on our way home. I, unfortunately, do not get to rest from my labors on Labor Day (yay for holiday pay!).

I hope all of you have a great Labor Day weekend!

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Being a Newlywed

Sometimes being a newlywed stinks:

Our apartment, however safe and clean it is, happens to be right next to a railroad track.
This isn't like the locomotive clock that my brother had as a kid that blew its whistle every hour, but had a light sensor and didn't make noise at night. NO, no, no. This railroad track has real trains that come a various hours in the day and night. And they blow their horn a LOT because of the railroad crossings. yay us!

Or, yet again. We are sitting in a hot laundromat, and we're both scrambling on our lap tops while waiting for our clothes because we don't have the internet at home.

While others go out on fancy dates (eating out or a movie), we stay home and watch an old movie or play Wii. 


Other times it's great:

Like today, when I was at work for only 6 hours and I missed my husband. It felt great to walk through our door and say "honey, I'm home!" and get my welcome home kiss.

The 3am train is bearable because he usually wakes up, too. We both sigh from annoyance, and I get another chance to say "I love you".

Because we don't go out for dates or whatever, I've really gotten to know the man I married. We talk and have fun without spending any money. Tonight, for instance, I came home from work and he was cooking me dinner. He made bread and chicken cordon bleu from scratch....for me. :D  And..you know, I think I have more fun making dinner with him and watching a movie at home than going out to a movie and dinner (although, I'm dying to go to Joe's Crabshack when we get a little moolah!!!!).


All in all, being a newlywed isn't that bad. I honestly wouldn't trade what I have for anything else.

What's your favorite memory from your newlywed year?